So your boyfriend dumped you and now you want him back. The good news is that almost all break ups can be reversed and with a little bit of help you will be back with your ex in no time. Here are some of the things that you should do if you want to get your ex back after he dumped you. The idea is to make him “want” you back.
Control your desperation
Your immediate reaction after a break up is to call him a thousand times and tell him how much you love him and make him count all the reasons why he shouldn’t be dumping you. This is not going to work. Get some distance in place and give him a chance to cool off.
Focus and find the cause
Use this time instead to focus on the cause that leads to your break up. Rationalize and figure things out for yourself so that you can make necessary amends.
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Get your emotions under control
Now the next thing that you will need to do is gather some emotional control. It makes no sense to men when women go on crying and begging and pleading so that they take them back. Men also get extremely uncomfortable with an emotionally out of control woman. So wise up.
Get on with your life
Meanwhile, you also need to make your ex feel like he is not the only one or the only thing in your life. So go on and begin to hang out with your friends and generally have a good time. But make sure that you never try to make him feel jealous. That might cause you to lose him for good.
Call him once you are fine
Now that you have your life under control it is time to call him. Make the call sound very casual. It would help if you call for some reason like his birthday or to congratulate him on a new job etc.
Offer to meet without an agenda
Now that you have got a talking offer to meet him but make sure you tell him that you just want to be friends. That will make him feel a lot comfortable with meeting you. You have to make him see that you value his friendship and if that’s all that you will get you are fine with it.
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Apologize and be genuine
When you meet him make sure that you apologize to him and take ownership of your actions. Show him how much you have changed and thank him for turning your life around. When he sees the new you, he will soon relent and you will be back with your ex.
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